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Words to Understand Cisgender: Used to describe someone who is not transgender or whose gender identity aligns with the one typically associated with the biological sex assigned to that person at birth. Heteronormative: The attitude or assumption that heterosexuality is the normal and natural expression of sexuality, instead of one of many possibilities. Marginalized: Thought of or treated as if belonging to a marginal, or less important, position within a society or group. Psychosocial: Relating to both psychological and social factors and how they interact. Stereotypical: When something conforms to a common or standardized mental picture promoted by a majority of members within a group; stereotypes often represent oversimplified or prejudiced opinions and attitudes. Coming out is an important, and often challenging, aspect of life for any person identifying as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning (LGBTQ). Gender identity and sexual orientation may feel very personal and private, but they are also an important part of how we view ourselves, how we live our lives, and simply who we are. Coming out is when people share with others that they identify as LGBTQ or a straight ally. This process can happen slowly or quickly, gradually or abruptly, privately or publicly. What is most important is that each person gets to choose personally how, when, and where they will come out to their friends, family, peers, coworkers, or other acquaintances. When individuals take control over their own coming- out experience, it becomes a wonderful tool for empowerment, advocacy, and self-fulfillment.

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Why Coming Out Matters